Seriously, it's stuff like this that makes me almost wish I was goth or something equivalent to make it almost expected for me to have a medieval costumed wedding in Venice.  Venice!!!!  As in Italy!!!  Sigh...

Um... I don't think you'd really want your husband to look like an elf with his hair on fire in the wedding photos when you look back on them 20 years from now...:P

I wouldn't be so sure of that if I were you...